A Psychologist Providing Support that is:
Trauma-Informed • Respectful • Evidence-Based • Ethical •
Faith-sensitive
Our stories shape how we see ourselves and the world around us. Experiences of faith-related harm, mental health challenges, ministry pressures, or difficult relationships can leave lasting marks — yet help is available. I hold each story with care and respect, offering trauma-informed support that honours your beliefs, values, and lived experience.
Kylie Walls, Psychologist - Refuge Psychology

Meet the Psychologist Behind Refuge Psychology
Hi, I’m Kylie Walls, a registered psychologist and the founder of Refuge Psychology.
My practice is shaped by professional experience, research, and a long-standing commitment to supporting people navigating complex emotional, relational, and faith-related experiences. I have worked with individuals from a wide range of backgrounds and faith traditions, and I have also held volunteer and professional roles within church and ministry contexts. These experiences have deepened my understanding of the unique dynamics that can arise when wellbeing, identity, and faith intersect — and the importance of care that is both sensitive and clinically grounded.
I have published research on control, attachment, and emotional regulation, and have previously worked as a Domestic and Family Violence Advisor within a faith-based organisation. I began my career as a teacher and later spent time working in photography, but my ongoing interest in people — their stories, relationships, and inner worlds — led me into psychological practice. I bring both professional and lived experience to my work in a way that is clinically grounded, respectful, and client-led.
Areas of Special Interest
I offer support to adults who may be:
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Managing general mental health concerns such as anxiety, depression, stress, grief, or life transitions — whether or not these are connected to faith or ministry.
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Navigating confusing, painful, or high-pressure experiences in church or ministry environments, including those recovering from spiritual abuse, coercion, or high-control faith settings, including cults.
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Pastors, ministry leaders, and caregivers experiencing stress, burnout, role strain, or relational challenges within ministry or leadership roles.
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Experiencing domestic and family violence, coercive control, or destructive relationship patterns — whether in intimate partnerships, family, community, or faith-based contexts.
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Experiencing scrupulosity / Religious OCD or distress related to rigid or fear-based beliefs.
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Facing workplace challenges, including bullying, power imbalances, role strain, or organisational conflict, and the emotional toll these experiences can create.
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Couples seeking support around communication, connection, conflict patterns, recovery after relational harm, infidelity, or navigating values and expectations within relationships.
Inclusive and Client-Led Care
While I have a particular interest in supporting people from faith backgrounds, I welcome clients from all backgrounds. My focus is on providing compassionate, trauma-informed, and ethical psychological care that honours each person’s values, experiences, and goals for wellbeing.
This is a collaborative space, shaped by your needs and values.

My Work - Shaped by Experience, Guided by Compassion
I work with adults who are navigating a wide range of emotional, relational, and life challenges. These may relate to mental health, relationships, work, family, faith, or identity. Difficult experiences in these areas can affect wellbeing, decision-making, and how we relate to ourselves and others.
I also understand that it can be hard to seek support, particularly when challenges occur in environments that hold personal meaning — such as families, workplaces, communities, or faith settings. When these situations are met with uncertainty, silence, or minimisation, it can be difficult to know how to make sense of what has happened or where to turn.
My approach to therapy is collaborative, structured, and paced to your needs. I aim to provide a space where experiences can be explored carefully and without judgement, and where we work together toward clarity, stability, and wellbeing.
I support individuals who may be:
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Managing anxiety, depression, stress, burnout, grief, or major life transitions
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Seeking support for relationship difficulties, communication patterns, or are engaged in couples therapy
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Experiencing role strain, isolation, or pressure in ministry, caregiving, or leadership roles
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Recovering from harmful relational dynamics, including coercive control or domestic and family violence
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Navigating scrupulosity / Religious OCD, or distress linked to rigid or fear-based belief patterns
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Making sense of experiences in faith, family, workplace, or community contexts where power or expectations have been complex
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Working to rebuild confidence, boundaries, or trust in themselves and others
My work is informed by trauma-aware, evidence-based, and client-led practice. This means we work at a pace that feels safe and manageable, and we focus on developing insight, stability, and effective coping strategies.
My aim is to offer a reliable, thoughtful, and respectful therapeutic space where you can focus on understanding your experiences and supporting your wellbeing in ways that align with your values and goals.
MY VALUES
Understanding What’s Beneath the Surface
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I deeply value a therapeutic process that honours the complex, often hidden emotional, relational, and spiritual roots of distress. Healing isn’t just about addressing surface symptoms—it requires understanding the whole story, including past wounds, belief systems, and relational patterns that shape your experience. Taking the time to explore these layers with safety and compassion creates space for genuine clarity and meaningful transformation.
Supporting Change with Insight and evidence-based strategies
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Insight alone isn’t always enough to create lasting healing. I’m committed to providing clients with evidence-based strategies and tools that foster emotional regulation, build resilience, and support healthier ways of relating to self, others, and faith. Whether navigating anxiety, scrupulosity, trauma, or complex spiritual challenges, I integrate practical approaches with compassionate understanding to help you move forward in everyday life with greater safety and freedom.
Seeing the whole person and their unique journey
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Every person is a whole story—a tapestry of mental health, relationships, cultural background, faith, and lived experience. I value recognising and honouring this complexity in each individual I support. Whether faith remains a source of comfort, feels confusing, or has been shaken by harm, you will be met with respect and without judgment. Healing is supported best when the entire person is seen, understood, and valued.
Ethical, Safe, and Trauma-Informed Practice
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Safety and trust are the foundation of any healing journey. I am deeply committed to providing trauma-informed care that upholds the highest ethical standards, including respect for your autonomy, clear boundaries, and confidentiality. Recognising the impact that misuse of power in spirtual contexts can have on person's ability to feel safe, I strive to create a secure and respectful space where your wellbeing is prioritised and your story is held with integrity.
Qualifications
Registered Psychologist - Psychology Board of Australia
Registered Teacher (Qld)
Education
Master of Psychological Practice, CSU.
Master of Guidance & Counselling, QUT.
Bachelor of Psychology, UNE
Bachelor of Ed/Bachelor of Music, UQ
Associations:
Australian Association of Psychologists (AAPi)
International Society of Schema Therapy (ISST)
Christian Counsellors Association of Australia (CCAA)
Additional Training
Individual Schema Therapy
Couples Schema Therapy
Gottman Couples Therapy
EMDR - Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing Therapy
Emotionally Focused Therapy
CBT, DBT & ERP
Published Research
Investigated coercive control, attachment styles, emotion regulation, and shame in intimate relationships.
Journal of Family Violence
Focus Areas / Special Interests
mental health challenges · Faith-based harm · Ministry Support · Domestic & family violence · Relationship therapy · Scrupulosity (Religious OCD) · Workplace stress & Burnout · Recovery from toxic relationships and systems
Featured on 'With All Due Respect' Podcast
In this episode, of 'with all due respect', I join Megan Powell du Toit and Reverand Michael Jensen for a conversation about coercive control, faith, and the misuse of power in Christian communities. Drawing on my clinical experience, I share how spiritual language and leadership structures can sometimes be used to justify or conceal patterns of control.

Book a session through the online portal today, or phone on:
1300 618 377
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Rebates are available with a Mental Health Treatment Plan
