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The Sign in the Window: On Complicity, Ideology, and the Architecture of Spiritual Harm
What sustains harm in spiritually abusive churches isn't the perpetrator alone — it's the quiet, semi-conscious compliance of those around them. A psychologist’s analysis of Václav Havel's The Power of the Powerless and his greengrocer as a lens for religious trauma, bystander complicity, and the slow work of repair.
It Wasn’t an Affair or Romance: Understanding Power, Consent, and Coercion in Clergy Sexual Abuse
A psychologist explores how power and coercion distort “consent” in clergy sexual abuse and exploitation —and how faith-sensitive, trauma-informed therapy supports healing. Although these relationships have been seen as an affair, this does not recognise the power differential and fiduciary duty associated with the pastor’s role.
The Sexual Grooming Model: How Manipulation Unfolds, and How Understanding it can Help you Heal
Psychologist explains the five stages of sexual grooming and how manipulation unfolds in spiritual or authority contexts. Learn how understanding these patterns helps survivors rebuild trust, recognise coercive control, and begin healing from abuse.